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Grace White: The Trail So Far

For many players, it can take several appearances for them to find themselves over the tryline or to truly burst onto the club rugby stage. But that was not the case for Trailfinders winger Grace White.

With a try on debut in Premiership Rugby 15s to a scoring yet again on her Club debut for Trailfinders, Grace White has given us a flavour of her lightning speed and great finishing abilities.

The winger is one of many Trailfinders players who study at Brunel and exemplifies the successful partnership between the university and the Club.

Growing up, White was incredibly sporty, engaging with a diverse range of activities. Yet, it was rugby that captured her heart.

This is Grace White’s Trail So Far.

Growing up in rugby country

White grew up in the South West of England, home to plenty of rugby clubs from grassroots all the way to professional level.

She recalled her first memory of rugby.

‘My first memory of rugby would have been in year eight at school. It was the first time they introduced rugby to the girls section of PE. I was playing football at the time and I remember playing my first rugby session then going home and immediately telling my dad I wanted to sign up to the local club.’

The club in question was Winscombe RFC. Winscombe boasted a large girls section – a highly unique trait for a grassroots club over a decade ago.

‘The girls section was already set up. There was a really influential man in my life called Gareth Waterfield, who set up the whole women’s section.

‘We had a really prosperous club that was full of girls. So we were able to field teams week in, week out, which I know a lot of people, sort of ten years ago, a lot of teams would struggle to do that. So I was really fortunate to play in a team that could have fixtures every week. If we couldn’t find a fixture, we had enough girls to play in club fixtures, which was really unique.’

Though the South West region in England has high participation rates in rugby at all levels, White recalled how Winscombe pulled female talent from across the region.

‘I don’t really remember there being that many other clubs around. I think people tended to congregate at Winscombe.

‘People like Jess Cooksey [Trailfinders Women] played there. Ellen Scantlebury [Exeter Chiefs], Lucy Burgess [Harlequins], who are all other players you’ll see in the PWR. It’s quite an advanced club.’

The family connection

Football, tennis, and hockey were all sports that White picked up throughout her sporting career. But the family connection to rugby made the sport stand out for her after her initial taste of the sport at school.

‘I think my ambition to play professional rugby stemmed from my dad. He played for England Colts.

‘Once I joined the local club as well, he signed up to coach on the same day I signed up to play. He coached me from day one of playing rugby away from school all the way through to under 18s and he sort of still actively coaches me now. He’ll watch every game and give me feedback.

‘But he’s had his England Colts cap hanging on the wall in his office since I was little. So I’ve seen that and seen the pictures of him from his career. I find that really inspiring and motivating.

‘I’m a little bit competitive with him. He’s played at Twickenham, I haven’t yet. Hopefully, one day I will.’

Mark White, Grace’s dad, with his England Colts cap

Grassroots to greatness

Since her first memory of picking up a rugby ball in her early adolescent years, White has traversed a journey from grassroots rugby to representing her country at age-grade level and with Great Britain as part of their Rugby Sevens programme.

‘I stayed at Winscombe from thirteen to eighteen. There was a slight overlap with Somerset county trials, going in for the under 18s and then it became the centre of excellence programme. So I was playing in centre of excellence for Bristol Bears whilst still at Winscombe.

‘I transitioned into the senior women’s set-up at Bristol when I was seventeen.

‘I played there for two years, spent a season playing quite a lot and then a season rehabbing quite a lot before coming to West London for both rugby and university, where I hope to stay for quite a while.’

White has represented England at U20s, U21s as well as flying the flag for Great Britain on the World Sevens tour. White made her GB7s debut in March 2025 in Hong Kong.

‘I feel like the shirt presentation and just holding a shirt with the GB badge on was a bit surreal. I was in Hong Kong, so somewhere I never even thought about travelling to. I almost wish I could relive it because I think at the time I was in such an elated fog that I didn’t necessarily appreciate it as much as I could have.’

As a winger, a big part of White’s role is to score tries for club and country. She scored on her Prem debut for Bristol Bears and did the same again when she joined Trailfinders Women.

She reflected on her favourite try that she’s scored in the PWR so far this season.

‘I think the cross-field kick from Meg Jones for me to score in the left corner against Bristol was my favourite so far this season.

‘We had been practising that set piece all week at the club. And I don’t think that many of them worked in training. But the more mistakes, the better.

‘In the match, she sent it across and it was a perfect kick. But it was one of those where you can easily drop it because it’s almost too easy to catch. So I was just trying not to overthink: I just needed to catch the ball and then dot it down. That try being against my old club too was a very good feeling.’

Talent pathways

White is currently studying at Brunel University, partner to the Trailfinders’ set-up. She has featured in the university’s inaugural season in BUCS Super Rugby as well as representing Trailfinders Women in the PWR and PWR Cup.

Being part of the Trailfinders pathway gives White the best of both worlds: rugby and education.

‘I actually took two years out of education thinking about what I wanted to do whilst also being at Bears and rehabbing. So I had a long time to consider what I wanted to do if I wanted to just be restricted to going to the Bristol universities or if I wanted to push the boat out and go somewhere else.

‘I localised my search to universities that were close enough to a premiership club. Then I reached out to some of the head coaches.

‘So I reached out to Trailfinders where Giselle Mather was in charge at the time. I came up and had a look around and absolutely loved it. And then it was just a case of choosing my course, which is physiotherapy. Brunel have a great physiotherapy department.

‘Since then, it’s been about bridging the gap between Brunel and Trailfinders. The club have been really supportive of that. I’ve had the best of both worlds since being here.’

Learning and growing

Whilst White is still in the early stages of her rugby career, her positive mindset has been shaped by some of the challenges she has faced as a player so far.

‘Naturally you always think of injury. That’s always been difficult when you can’t play the sport you love. Everyone will tell you that it’s the worst side of it when you’re watching everyone play and train and you’re stuck in the gym doing, I don’t know, resisted ankle movements or whatever it might be.

‘I think sometimes when you just feel like you’re in a bit of a slump, that can be really hard to overcome. That might come after a couple tough games or a couple narrow losses where you feel like as a team you should have won, that can be mentally really frustrating. Especially when you’ve got big goals.

‘It can be really tough to feel like you’re not always performing to your best as a squad or to what your potential might be. That’s also really challenging. And also, as a winger, sometimes you’re freezing cold and you don’t get the ball. That makes you question things at the time.’

White also mentioned how overcoming many of these challenges is about taking accountability, reflecting on the past and using that to move forward in a positive way.

‘I think it’s a case of reviewing, being accountable, and asking yourself “what could I have done better? What did I do wrong that I can improve on?”

‘I think you’ve got to be really honest with yourself: look at yourself first before you start to look at the team. Because I can only really control what I do. And then as a collective, what do we want to chase for the upcoming week?

‘A lot of these things are about how you flip the script from feeling rubbish into let’s prove a point.

‘If I drop the ball on the pitch, I don’t dwell on the mistake. I try to think about how I can redeem it, how I can wash away the error. You can’t dwell on stuff that’s gone behind you.’

Highlights to date

Though White surely has plenty more memories to make in her rugby career, she recalled some of her career highlights to date.

‘Getting my first Prem cap when I was at Bristol Bears was definitely a career highlight. Getting a try on debut as well just affirmed that I was in the right place, that I was meant to be playing in the league.

‘Achieving my first cap for GB7s was also surreal. Playing 7s has helped me feel comfortable on the edge with 15s. I had to defend twenty metres in 7s so when I have to defend ten metres in union, it doesn’t feel as much of a challenge.

‘Playing 7s helped me with my confidence and taught me that I can rely on my individual skillset.’

Future ambitions

Grace White has proven herself to be an exciting prospect in the women’s game. Her ambitions at club and country go far beyond what the young winger has already achieved.

‘I think I’ve recently started thinking about my 50 caps because that feels like a really big deal and something I’d be really proud to get to.

‘I’m with England under 21s at the minute as well. We’ve got a huge goal as a squad to beat France because it’s been a long time coming.

‘I have dreams of being a senior Red Rose, but that’s a big step.

‘I’m just taking things as they come and working on what I can do to become a better player everyday.’

Grace creates

Whilst rugby and studying occupies most of Grace’s time, outside of training and academia, she likes to create. Clay is her material of choice for the most part and Grace’s creations have varied from an egg crate to general crockery.

‘When I have breaks in rugby or university, I love getting out the modelling clay and painting.’

Some of Grace’s creations

‘I enjoy reading. Mostly fantasy books and series like Fourth Wing, Throne of Glass, A Court of Thorns and Roses.

‘I’m a firm lover of spikeball, as most of us are. When I’m away from the club with longer breaks in rugby, I like to go home and play tennis with my parents.’

Words of advice

It was a decade ago since White took her first punt at rugby. She reflected on what she would say to her younger self if she had the chance.

‘Pressure doesn’t breed performance for me. I’m someone that’s always been like “I need to perform at my best” and most of it’s perceived pressure.

‘Often it’s just expectations that I have for myself. When I was thirteen and going into rugby, I would say just relax and enjoy it. You’re young, you’re learning, and just embrace being with your teammates rather than treating every game as something that I must prove to myself that I’m good enough.

‘Watching Vicky Laflin play inspires me. She’ll work off her wings and pick up lines in opportunist ways. It works well in her favour because she’s just having fun and reading the game.

‘Watching her play really inspires me to try and apply that attitude more to my game, to be free on the pitch and try new things.’

Vicky Laflin (left), Grace White (right)

What it means to be a Trailfinder

For Grace, rugby is the mainstay in her life. It’s the thing that is central to her. She put into words what it means to be a Trailfinder.

‘It’s sort of become my life. We train so often; my friends are based at the club. The club is where I feel comfortable.

‘I just don’t think there’s somewhere I feel more content than when I’m here: training and working hard with a group around me that are doing the same.

‘Rugby gives so much back that it is really my lifeline and it’s a huge part of my personality. I know all athletes are more than just rugby players, but I like to commit a lot of myself to a sport that gives a lot back to me.

‘I have a lot of hobbies and nothing gives back in the same way that rugby does. Why wouldn’t I commit all my passion, time and effort into it. It’s my long-term future and rugby is a big part of who I am.’

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Kyle Whyte: The Trail So Far

Not many professional athletes become club centurions, but Kyle Whyte is one who has.

After receiving his 100th cap for Ealing Trailfinders in the 0-71 win over Ampthill in Round Six of the Champ this season, the loosehead prop joined eight other club centurions on the Trailfinders wall situated in the clubhouse at Trailfinders Sports Club. Whyte joined Trailfinders in 2020. Yet, it was a diverse journey that led the South African born prop down the Trail to West London. This is the Trail So Far for Kyle Whyte.

Rugby Beginnings

Whyte was born in the mid-1990s in South Africa into a rugby loving family. Following in his father’s footsteps, Whyte picked up rugby in some of the best sporting schools in Cape Town and Johannesburg.

‘The first school I played for in South Africa was Bishops Diocesan College. My dad actually did a bit of coaching at the school. He came and coached me at under nine level. It was cool to have my dad being on the sidelines and teaching me directly.

‘My dad was also a prop, but he went to lots of different schools growing up and I moved from Cape Town to Johannesburg back to Cape Town because of his work.’

Whilst Whyte recalled his first memory of rugby at Bishops, he said that he learnt much of his early rugby skills at Rondebosch Boys’ School. Rondebosch boasts an array of professional sporting alumni including Joel Stansky, Springbok fly-half famous for the winning drop goal against New Zealand in the 1995 Rugby World Cup final.

‘I was only at Bishops for two-three years,’ Whyte said. ‘At that age, it wasn’t really competitive. It was more about learning the gist of rugby. After that, I lived in Johannesburg for two years then moved back to Cape Town and went to school at Rondebosch. I stayed there from when I was twelve to eighteen.

‘I think a lot of the schools in South Africa are very rugby driven and Rondebosch is a big rugby school in South Africa. They did push other types of sports, though rugby was one of the main sports. You could see that on the weekends when they made it compulsory for other students to come and watch the first team play. I had to watch the first team play from a young age and I always wanted to be a part of that.’

Rugby was not the only sport Whyte was involved with growing up, however.

‘I did waterpolo when I was younger. It is a team sport but at the same time the training is very solo. A lot of it is about improving your fitness. It was a good cross with rugby – it meant I was fit.’

With temperatures of high twenties edging into thirty degrees Celsius, South Africa boasts weather that many Brits can only dream of. Whyte recalled fond memories of being in the pool on hot days back in South Africa.

‘It was really nice to be in the pool in the summer playing waterpolo. I made it to the provincial teams. I really enjoyed it.’

Come his penultimate year at school, Whyte had to make a decision between the two sports.

‘My parents said to me to pick one sport over the other because I had to focus on my academics. As a career choice, there were a lot more options with making a career out of rugby in South Africa so that’s one of the reasons why I chose rugby.

‘It was an easy decision to pick rugby over waterpolo. The 6 o’clock training sessions before school, being in the pool where it’s just swimming and then another session after school… it was a lot of training and time away from the study books.

‘Rugby was a sport I could make more a career out of compared to waterpolo too.’

The Journey

Growing up in Cape Town, there’s a huge community behind the DHL Stormers, formerly the Stormers. Perhaps it was fate that schoolboy Whyte donning a Stormers cap would one day wear that club badge on his chest as a professional player.

‘My dad is a big Stormers supporter. I’ve got pictures of me and my cousin wearing Stormers t-shirts, going to watch the games on a Saturday at Newlands. I always wanted to play for them.’

Kyle Whyte (left) and his cousin Grant (right)

‘When I was at school, my agent Rod Labuschagne actually ended up being a coach of mine when I was sixteen. He approached me and said that he thought I had potential. He pushed me through the career side of rugby.

‘I started my rugby career straight out of school. My first professional contract at under nineteen was basically a year spent in a hotel with other players, and it was rugby every day. That year primed me for professional sport: being in that mindset of playing every day. My job was to play rugby.

‘Between nineteen and twenty-one, I played for Western Province in the Currie Cup and then got my first senior contract with Western Province Stormers.

‘My dad was born in Inverness, Scotland which meant I was Scottish-qualified. That opened up the opportunity for me to play rugby in Edinburgh. I was so excited about it as I had dreamt of going overseas and playing rugby.

‘I moved to Scotland for around two years. I really loved living in Edinburgh. After my time in Scotland, I moved back to South Africa to be with the Sharks.’

Prior to playing in the United Rugby Championship, the Durban-based club featured in Super Rugby as well as the Currie Cup, though an injury to Whyte’s shoulder meant he missed much of the Super Rugby season.

‘With my shoulder injury, I did miss out, though it was nice to be part of the team that won the Currie Cup and celebrate with the other boys.’

With every cloud comes a silver lining, however.

‘Whilst I was at the Sharks, we had a coach in residence who came for a three-week coaching clinic. He was the Head Coach for Bayonne in France. He asked if I would be interested in playing in France given that the Super Rugby season had ended and the club rugby season in France was just about to get started. So, I moved over to France.

‘I really enjoyed living there. It was such a different culture, and they help you learn the language. I had two sessions a week where I sat with someone and they taught me French. Though, I was quite lucky because at that time, I had joined Bayonne when there were twelve other international players so I wasn’t just thrown into the deep end with it all.

‘I was still doing some rehab when I arrived at Bayonne and the guy I was working with had never left France. There were a lot of hand gestures and signing to get the messages across at times.

‘Bayonne is a beautiful place. I still go back to visit my son who lives there.’

Professional sport does mean that many things can remain uncertain. At the time Whyte was contracted with Bayonne, the club was playing in the Pro D2, the league below the Top14. Though promotion and relegation are a pinnacle part within professional club rugby in France, Whyte did not know if Bayonne had budget to keep him contracted for another season.

‘I didn’t know if Bayonne was going to get promoted that season and the forwards coach from London Scottish—who were still a full-time team at the time—had been at Edinburgh at the same time as me. He reached out to me and asked if I wanted to come back to the UK. I jumped at the opportunity because there was so much uncertainty around budget at Bayonne.

‘Funnily enough, Bayonne ended up winning the league and got promoted. I could have had a season in the Top14. Yes, I could have waited for Bayonne to decide on my fate but there was too much uncertainty. You have to make a decision when stuff like that comes your way.’

Whyte during his time at Bayonne after winning the Pro D2 in 2018-19

Whyte played for London Scottish during the 2019-2020 season until the world was plunged into lockdown because of the COVID-19 pandemic. Changes in finances at London Scottish during that time meant that Whyte had to reassess other options. The prop didn’t want to move on from rugby when he felt like he had more to give to the sport he loves.

‘There was a lot of uncertainty. But then Ealing Trailfinders came forward and said that they had been watching me and were impressed. They offered to bring me in. The rest is history.’

The Learnings

Reflection is a key skill to enable professional athletes to succeed. Without reflection, there’s no way for an individual to learn, grow, and implement change. Whyte offered his thoughts on some of the biggest challenges from his career, what he learnt from them and how he’s using those reflections to set up a platform for a career post-rugby in restaurant management.

‘One of my biggest challenges at Ealing Trailfinders was not playing consistently at a point during my time here. When you’ve been at a club for as long as I’ve been at Ealing for, of course there are ups and downs. It can seem like groundhog day when you feel like you’re not performing at your best.

‘I think it was either my third or fourth season at Trailfinders where I wasn’t selected for about a ten-week period because I was off form and needed something outside of rugby to motivate me again.

‘When Brett Wilkinson was here at the Club, he was a good role model for me. He spoke to me and said that I needed to find something else other than rugby that brings me excitement. Something that would take my mind off work.

‘At the time, I was just coming in to do my gym work, training, rugby, then went home and didn’t do much. The cycle would repeat. So, I had to find my ways of motivating myself again.’

One of Whyte’s motivations is having downtime with his dog.

‘I enjoy taking my dog for walks. He keeps me going.’

‘I’m also studying on the side now – a business management course. And I’ve been speaking to someone that I met through Connect Through Sport. He’s organised a few meetings for me with people that work in restaurant management. I’ve got an upcoming meeting with the CEO of Six by Nico and we’re going to have a chat about exploring a career in restaurant management after rugby.

‘I love cooking and I enjoy food, but I could never see myself being a chef. With my business management course, I could see myself running a restaurant and hopefully in the future, open my own restaurant.’

Connect Through Sport is an initiative organised by the commercial department at Ealing Trailfinders. The programme aims to offer a bridge between athletes and the business world to create meaningful opportunities beyond the rugby field.

Whyte is immersing himself in the offerings of Connect Through Sport to help create a platform for his career after professional rugby.

The Highlights: a winning career

For many rugby players, they’re fortunate if their team wins one, perhaps two trophies in the course of their professional career. But for Whyte, there have been plenty of career highlights that have included winning silverware.

‘I’ve been very lucky with winning titles in my career. It started off with my under 19s season at Western Province. We won the U19 Currie Cup in my first season. In my second season, we won the U21 Currie Cup.’

Whyte after winning the Under 21 Currie Cup with Western Province

‘When I moved to Edinburgh, I think on my third or fourth cap, we were in the quarterfinals of the European Challenge Cup. As a 21-year-old, that was a big deal for me playing against La Rochelle.

‘Another big moment for me was winning the Pro D2 with Bayonne.

‘Then coming to Trailfinders and winning Championships. It felt very rewarding when we won the Championship for the first time because I had played so much rugby in Trailfinders colours. As with Bayonne, the win was great, but it wasn’t as rewarding because I didn’t play so much.

‘It felt so much more rewarding winning with Ealing because I had gotten through all of pre-season, played most games, and then to win was amazing.’

Goals for the future

Though Whyte has already completed a diverse and successful professional career, the loosehead prop still feels like he has plenty more to give to the sport before pursing his goals of restaurant management.

‘I’d like to say that I have four-five more years left in me with rugby. I want to keep pushing myself, putting myself in contention for selection. We’re an ambitious club – we want to play against the best.

‘We have a lot of talent coming through at the club, so I want to put myself in the best position to continue being selected.

‘It’s also important for me to set up a life after rugby. Once I’m finished as a player, I do think I’ll have a clean break away from the sport. Coaching isn’t something that I want to pursue.

‘Of course, I still want to make the most of my time in rugby but after it’s over, I’d like to do something completely different. Hence why I’m trying to work towards restaurant management with my studying and involvement with Connect through Sport.’

Having the right people at your side

Success is rarely achieved in a vacuum. Often, it is the people around us who help to ensure our success. For Whyte, there are three people who have shaped him into the athlete and individual he is today.

‘My partner, Lauren. We’ve been living together for the past year and we’re big support systems for each other. We always find time to listen to each other, especially after days that feel harder than others.

‘Lauren comes to a lot of the home and away games too. She’s a big part of my support system.’

Kyle and his partner Lauren

‘My father is also a big part of my life too. I speak to him a lot. He’s always been very supportive of my career.

‘Rod, my old coach and agent too. Whenever I have questions or concerns about my career, he’s someone that I always go to. Rod has always been a great friend of mine – kind of like a brother.

‘Rod has helped me a lot with my career choices and has looked out for me. He’s a great guy. When I went back to South Africa on holiday last year, I stayed with him for a couple of days. We braaied, had a few drinks and lots of conversations. It was nice to be with him.’

It’s often the case for many South Africans that the best memories are made with meat over a flame, the conversation flowing with the braai in full swing.

If you could give advice to your younger self

With time comes learning and sometimes it’s the case that only time can teach an individual the most important life lessons. Whyte offered his thoughts on what he might say to his younger self if he could, to the young boy at Bishops in Cape Town who first picked up a rugby ball.

‘I probably wouldn’t say much. Though, I would say, just do what you’re going to do in life and learn from the mistakes you make.’

What it means to be a Trailfinder

Whyte is one of nine club centurions in Trailfinders’ professional era. He offered his thoughts on what it means to don the green and white colours.

‘Being part of Trailfinders has taught me a lot. Every team wants to win and it’s rewarding winning more than losing and being on top. But it also teaches you that you need to be on it every week, to not take anything for granted because there are a lot of people who would love to be in the position you’re in.’

Whilst Whyte will surely accumulate more caps for the Club in weeks, months, and seasons to come, for now the focus is on performing at his best and helping Ealing Trailfinders continue to make history.

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Michael Dykes on breaking Champ Rugby records

After scoring two tries in the win against Hartpury that made history for Ealing Trailfinders, Michael Dykes reflects on breaking the Champ Rugby record.

The 19-46 win over Hartpury on Saturday 14 February at 4ED Stadium led Ealing Trailfinders to break the Champ Rugby record for the most consecutive wins in the league. Twenty-two consecutive wins in the league ensures that Trailfinders remain unbeaten this season after securing the Championship trophy in 2024/25.

In the eight try win over Hartpury, winger Michael Dykes scored two tries and was pivotal in the attacking waves that meant Hartpury lost on home soil for the first time this season.

Dykes offered his reflections on how it felt to break the Champ Rugby record as a member of the starting XV.

‘Yeah, it was pretty amazing actually,’ he said. ‘Especially because Hartpury had a strong record this season at home. It was a big thing to see if we could it: break the record and beat Hartpury on home turf.

‘But then we went out there and we smashed it.’

Michael Dykes, Hartpury vs Ealing Trailfinders, Round Seventeen

Hartpury had proved a tight contest in Round Five at Trailfinders Sports and the Trailfinders squad knew how much of an attacking threat the Gloucestershire side posed. Dykes spoke about how the different conditions playing Hartpury at home versus at the 4ED Stadium did not phase the squad.

‘The conditions were a lot different. We were all on the same page. We had a really good Thursday training session, so we were all aligned.

‘We’re just loving our rugby. It was really enjoyable to be out there at Hartpury, spreading the ball wide.

‘We’re believing in ourselves a bit more now and getting the outcomes from training. It’s nice that we can put it on the pitch.’

The synergy within the Trailfinders squad is showing in their consistent performances and unbeaten run so far in the competition this season.

In the record breaking win, Trailfinders were able to play with speed, width, and plenty of attacking flare – the perfect conditions for a back three player to shine. Dykes scored two tries, had one try assist, and a key line break. He reflected on his performance as one of his best this season.

‘I definitely think it’s my best performance this season. Because everything went well from Thursday training, it sort of helps you clear your mind for just doing what you do best on the pitch.

‘There’s no other way to describe the feeling of scoring a try other than excitement but it’s sometimes a feeling of relief too. It’s nice as a winger to score because that’s our job really to be on the end of tries. It’s great when the boys can also set the back three up for scoring too.’

Trailfinders have displayed consistent performances this season, a lot of which comes down to the combinations of mentality, physicality and squad rotation. Dykes emphasised how the squad needs to remain focussed as the rest of the season unfolds, especially considering the revised knock-out format that was introduced into the Champ this season.

‘We have to stay focussed and take it game by game. In the past, we’ve won the league with a couple of games to go. Whereas this season, anything can happen in the knockouts.

‘The mentality is to continue taking each game as it comes and if we play our game, we’ll be at our best.’

Outside of his playing career, Dykes is equally competitive in his personal life. Gaming is a popular pastime for many of the players in the squad and Dykes is part of a Call of Duty group.

‘I’m a PS5 guy and there’s a group of us at the club that are into Call of Duty. It takes my mind off rugby.

‘Otherwise, I try spend time with friends or my partner outside of rugby.’

This weekend, Ealing Trailfinders will return to home soil to face Ampthill in Round Eighteen of the competition in a bid to continue extending the record they broke last weekend.

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Mike Willemse on his return to play and having been a leader from the sidelines

Vice Club Captain Mike Willemse previews Round Sixteen against Coventry as he returns to play for the first time this season.

The hooker will feature in the Trailfinders squad against the West Midlands side after recovering from a pectoral injury sustained earlier in the season.

Willemse emphasised how the rehabilitation period has helped to reignite his energy and desire to be back on the rugby pitch.

“I’m really excited to be back. I think the break sort of… I don’t want to say reignited my desire, but I think to some extent, it gets you a little bit more keen to play than if you just go on every week.

“It’s been good to watch the boys carry on. I want to be a part of it. I think it’s been so long for me out on the side, and the rehab side of things has been tough. I think you train harder in rehab than when you’re playing. I’ve really enjoyed getting back into the team. I just want to stay there now.”

Director of Rugby Ben Ward named Willemse as Vice Club Captain alongside Jordy Reid with Angus Kernohan as Club Captain. Whilst Willemse has not had the opportunity to implement his leadership skills within a match day scenario as a result of his rehab, he’s been watching closely from the side lines and maintaining communication with the wider leadership group.

“I think the rehab period actually gave me a bit more time to focus on things completely off field,” he said.

“Myself, Angus and Jordy, we’ve got a tight connection. So we’ll chat about things regardless. It’s actually been quite nice to see the other side of things, like spend a bit of time with the guys that aren’t really training all the time. I want to be able to add value on that front.

“It’s been quite cool as I’ve had the capacity to take the perspectives of everyone and now I can bring it into the general group that’s playing every weekend. As a whole, it’s worked quite well.”

Willemse has clearly taken a positive mindset to prior physical set backs and used the time to gauge the ambitions of the wider squad. Whilst no rugby player wants to find themselves on the sidelines, Willemse took the last few months during his rehab to observe the mindset of constant improvement within the Trailfinders squad and how supportive the players are of one another.

“We’ve got a competitive group. Everyone wants to play.

“The crazy thing about it is that everyone’s very tight as well. You’ll get guys in the same position helping each other to try and get better. And it’s been pretty cool to see.

“Naturally everyone’s just getting better and better and better. It makes training tough because I get seriously competitive, but it’s healthy: the desire to want to play and be selected. It’s healthy competition.

“I think the way the hookers have been playing has been insane. If I can just get back to where I left off last season, I’d be very happy. I don’t want to put any pressure on myself to do anything crazy, but I thought last year was kind of really good and I’ve worked really hard now, so I feel like I’m probably in a bit of a better position than I was at the end of last season.

“Without putting pressure on myself, it’s about trying to get back to that starting position.”

The last time Ealing Trailfinders faced Coventry was in Round Four of the Champ at Butts Park Arena. The first forty minutes in Round Four saw for a physical battle between the two sides, though Trailfinders broke away with a sequence of tries in the second half to win 36-63. Willemse offered his thoughts on this weekend’s opposition.

“Coventry have scored a lot of points against us in the past. In our defensive meetings in the mornings this week, we actually had a look at the footage from previous games and how they’ve scored against us in the last four encounters. Every time it’s been 30 or just under 30 points. That’s not where we want to be. But it’s a testament to how good they are and how much they take us on.

“We know Coventry pose serious threats and we’ll have to be on the ball this Saturday.

“We’ll be right up for it this weekend. Because of that, I think we’ve got a bit of a point to prove in that sense. We scored a lot of tries against them last time out, but they scored a lot of tries against us very quickly. We’ve been really focussing on our defensive front this week and hopefully it goes well.”

A big part of the team culture at Ealing Trailfinders are the team braais. As a cultural South African tradition where meat is seasoned, braaied over flame, with plenty of conversation, it’s no wonder that the masterminds behind a Trailfinders braai are South Africans Mike Willemse and Bobby de Wee.

“I mean, I can’t deny that we definitely take lead on the braais,” Willemse said. “It’s just a good way to bring everyone together. Everyone gets involved.

“A braai is about the cooking but it’s also about chilling together and enjoying a chat. I love seeing everyone get involved. The guys sort out their stations, who’s doing what. Yeah, they enjoy it.”

Team bonding on and off the pitch is a pivotal part of what makes the culture at Trailfinders what it is.

“The players would have to lead on that front when it comes to organising socials. But I think Ben Ward and Tom McLaughlin allow us an opportunity to do that sort of stuff. And it’s still something we’re trying to get better at.

“We have our leadership groups, which has got both young and older people in it just to get ideas and share our thoughts. We want this to be a place where people really enjoy coming and it’s not just about the players, it’s about everyone.

“The boys are really enjoying the social side of the environment that the Club provides.”

Just like any rugby team, player socials are a sacred part of the season. Leading the charge as social secretary for Ealing Trailfinders is second rower Danny Cutmore.

“Oh, he’s awesome to be fair,” Willemse said on Cutmore in his role as social sec. “He leads the charge so… Yeah, he’s good. There’s no holding back with him.

“I think locks in general like to be in control of things. It makes sense for him to be running the show. That’s very much DC. He enjoys the social side of rugby. So do I – I think everyone does. That’s one of the things that makes this place a great environment to be in.”